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The Object of My Affection streaming

1998 Movie United States Drama, Romance, Comedy 111 min FSK 6
By: Nicholas Hytner With: Steve Zahn, Iraida Polanco, Lauren Pratt, Lena Cardwell, Sean Rademaker

A pregnant New York City social worker begins to develop romantic feelings for her gay best friend, and decides she'd rather raise her child with him, much to the dismay of her overbearing boyfriend.

Filmium rating
55%

Mood

Bittersweet
Melancholic
Reflective
Romantic
Touching

Cast & Crew

Nicholas Hytner
Wendy Wasserstein
Stephen McCauley
Hayden Panettiere
Allison Janney
Bruce Altman
Lisa-Erin Allen
Audra McDonald
Lena Cardwell
Kate Jennings Grant
Kevin Carroll
Jane Bodle
Robert C. Lee
Rebecca Eichenberger
Jeffrey M. Marchetti
Sarah Hyland
Nigel Hawthorne
Antonia Rey
Bette Henritze
Alan Alda
Steve Zahn
Mary McIlvaine
Ava Lee Scott
Iraida Polanco
Peter Maloney
Samia Shoaib
Doug Wert
Gabriel Macht
Liam Aiken
Kali Rocha
Shawn Phelan
Ellen Tobie
Steven Ochoa
Amo Gulinello
Joan Copeland
Salem Ludwig
Damian Young
Heather Thompson
Sarah Knowlton
John Pankow
Paul Rudd
Bradley White
Paz de la Huerta
Rosanna Scotto
John Roland
Natalie B. Kikkenborg
Marilyn Dobrin
Fanni Green
Susan Bradford
Tim Daly
Miguel Maldonado
Sean Rademaker
Lauren Pratt
Janet Zarish
Virl Andrick
Midori Nakamura
Danny Darrow
Jennifer Aniston
Edward James Hyland
Kia Goodwin
Daniel Cosgrove

Adaptation

Based On Novel
Literary Adaptation
Screenplay

Budget

Mainstream
Mid-Budget
Studio Film

Cinematic Technique

Conversational
Dialogue-Driven
Intimate Framing
Naturalistic
Naturalistic Lighting
Steady Camera

Narrative Structure

Character-Driven
Character-Focused
Linear
Relationship-Driven
Slice-Of-Life

Pace

Character-Focused
Conversational
Moderate
Moderate Pace
Slice-Of-Life
Steady

Runtime

Around 2 Hours
Feature Film
Moderate Length

Soundtrack

Background Music
Period-Appropriate
Romantic Score

Style

Cinematic
Contemporary
Drama
Realistic
Romantic Comedy

Time-Period

1990S
Late 20Th Century
Urban Setting

Central Conflict

Friendship Vs Love
Friendship Vs. Romance
Parenthood
Personal Identity
Romantic Feelings
Unrequited Love

Characters

Gay Friend
Pregnant Woman
Social Worker

Ending

Bittersweet
Family
Hopeful
Open-Ended

Historical Context

Late 1990S
Pre-2000
Urban America

Key Plot Points

Childbirth
Pregnancy
Romantic Tension

Plot

Friendship
Romantic Comedy
Romantic Tension
Unexpected Parenthood
Urban Setting

Setting

Brooklyn
Brooklyn Apartment
New York City
Urban Apartment
Urban Environment

Shooting Location

Connecticut
New Jersey
New York

Theme

Family
Friendship
Identity
Love
Love And Friendship
Self-Discovery

Genre

Drama
Romantic Comedy
Slice Of Life

Audiences

Adults
Drama Viewers
Romance Fans
Romantic Comedy Fans
Teens

Titles

The Object Of My Affection

Awards

Glaad Nomination
London Critics Circle Award

Box Office Success

$46.9 Million Gross
Moderate Success
Us And International

Critical Reception

Ebert Review
Mixed Reviews
Rotten Tomatoes 52%

Ratings

5.8/10 Average
Mixed Critical Response

Reception

Critical Response
Glaad Nomination
Mixed Reviews
Moderate Box Office
Moderate Success

Production Countries

United States

Release Year

1998
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